Monday, March 30, 2009
I've been sensing that ALOT is wrong recently, even for friends whom I haven't seen for quite some time. It just sucks, being out of the loop, but for now, it can't be helped. Not much anyway.
It's just weird. But I guess that it's just one of those times that everyone grows up, and this is just this weird jiggly phase that people go through before evolving into another form. ( YAY, POKEMON FOR THE WIN! )
Sometimes, somethings in life are not meant to be. Not because of fate or destiny or luck or whatever shitty things that people believe will affect their lives, but because of the circumstances, the people.
We met, by circumstances.
We clicked, because of a common point in life at that point of time.
We stayed together, because we wanted each other's support in times of need. Humans are social creatures by nature, that's not anything new.
And when we fell apart, it's probably because of one of the many many complicated and delicate strings holding us together broke. Things went downhill since, and never got back up again.
Patience and forgiving is not what everyone has. Everyone has different principles.
Some can't forgive, even for one wrong mistake.
Some can forgive, for once, or twice.
Do we have the effort, the energy, the time, the compassion? In this fast-paced society, it just seem like its just not worth all these for a fellow being who got side-tracked and needs some help from those who cares.
Alot of good things, good times don't stay for long in our lives. Maybe this is just one of the many that will have to go in time. But, I don't really mind, cos I really did cherish the peaceful past. I don't need the forever, all I need is only the bittersweet memories.
Hope that Vin can let go easily enough when anything in her life has to leave her. x3